I still remembered a story told to me when I was a little kid.
The story was about this guy who owed this lady very few amount of money and he would promise to return her money. But then she died, yet she still come back and hunt him for the money.

The moral of the story is..to be square and debt no one.

But now when I look at it I sees that closure is very important
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East vs West and the Social security problem

For the eastern, mainly asian society were taught to honor and take care of our elder. Basicly taking care of them when they get old.

as for the western we were taught to live independently very early and very much careless about our grandparent. and hopes that the goverment would take care of them.

I mean, if all americans share the value of honor our elder and taking care of them instead of depending on the gov.. i think we would easily solve the Social security problem.

ain't it better to go to hell with you
than go to heaven alone?

is staying with your kin that important?
Even if knowing its the wrong path or doing the wrong thing but as long as u'r with u'r kin all is okay.

what is right and wrong is subjective to the eye of the beholder as long as the person that you care seems fit.

my new year. I saw a sign and its a significant sign that... let me know all is not in vain.
happy new year 2006